What makes a good relationship? ๐ฅฐ
What is a Relationship?
Google: the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.
Simply put: Connection, Shared experience, Relatingโฆ
Is it a relationship or entanglement (Gay Hendricks in The Big Leap http://amzn.to/2gllXvC)
Love or a contractual obligation?
- RESPONSIBILITY: Take 100% Responsibility
- YOU: #1 Rule – Love Yourself (fall in love with yourself first)
- REMEMBER: Practice gratitude by counting the things you love about them
- GIVE: Be in it to give unconditionally
- DO: Love is a verb first, then a felling (Covey http://amzn.to/2yqF1Pk)
- NEEDS: Fill the Needs of your loved one – 6 Human Needs (Tony Robbins https://mbsy.co/C693V)
- SERVE: do something to take care of the other person.ย Youโre not responsible for their happiness, but you are responsible for how you treat them(Data story from Star Trek)
- ACCEPT: love them for who they are today, unconditionally, and forgive EVERYTHING, donโt try to change them – donโt project your problems onto them (Gay Hendricks http://amzn.to/2gllXvC)
- TALK: Communicate openly and honestly (donโt play the โguess-what-Iโm-thinkingโ game)
- SELECT: Be wise in the selection process: Can, will, right fit (chemistry or glue) – the more things you have in common the better
- LIKE: You need to like someone in addition to love to spend a lifetime together
- TIME: Spend time together
How to โloveโ as a verb
- Words
- Time
- Share similarities (glue, beliefs, values, goals)
- Touch
- Serve
6 Human Needs
- Certainty
- Uncertainty
- Significance
- Love & Connection
- Growth
- Contribution
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