I just wanted to write a little bit about being Loveable, Loving, and Loved. This is all part of making sure you are fulfilling your need for love.
Loveable
You should be working on your character to make sure you are a likeable or loveable person. Develop and maintain the qualities that will cause people to like or love you. You may know what people like or love about people, for example: nonjudgmental, accepting, understanding, reliable, trustworthy, and more.
Loving
Open your heart and love people. Love is a verb, it is something that you do. You can love people in several different ways:
- Speaking loving words (verbal expressions of love)
- Service
- Gifts
- Time
- Touch
Loved
Being loved is not about getting people to love you. It’s about receiving love when it does come. Open your heart and let people love you. When you love yourself and believe that you are worthy of being loved, you allow the love to flow inward. But it’s not about the volume of love flowing into you, it’s about how big your door is to allow love to come in. The simple law of averages is that if you love plenty of people, love yourself, and work on being loveable, a good portion of those people will return that love to you.
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